When attending village drinking ceremonies, he would leave only after the elderly people had left.Confucius, & Slingerland, E. (2003). Analects: With selections from traditional commentaries. Hackett Publishing.
When drinking with the others of the community, he waited until the elderly people with canes had left before leaving.Confucius, & Watson, B. (2007). The Analects of Confucius. Columbia University Press.