The Master said, “The gentleman seeks it in himself; the petty person seeks it in others.”Confucius, & Slingerland, E. (2003). Analects: With selections from traditional commentaries. Hackett Publishing.
The Master said, The gentleman makes demands on himself. The petty man makes demands on others.Confucius, & Watson, B. (2007). The Analects of Confucius. Columbia University Press.